From Fashion to Focal Styling: How to Choose the Right Wedding Dress.

A collection of gowns from The Trust Workshop, photographed by Lei Lei Clavey Photography.

It's the fundamental part of every wedding, it defines your overall vision, but more or less, you define the dress. It's in almost every photo and it's the first thing people will notice as you walk down the aisle. So with so much weight bearing down on the billows of fabric adorning your frame, how do you make sure you choose the right one?

We've chatted to past and current brides to gain a thorough understanding of the psychology behind this all-so important choice and we've put together a step by step analysis of how to make it.

Annalise wearing Cesar Chehade, photographed by Keegan Cronin.

Refine Your Vision

Before stepping foot into a bridal salon, it’s essential to clarify your vision. Consider the aesthetic you want for your wedding day, and how your dress will fit into that broader picture. Begin by narrowing down the core elements that resonate with your personal style - taking cues from your every day wear.

Be mindful that trends come and go. Instead of focusing on what's popular at the moment, consider how your dress will look in the context of your life as a whole. Will this gown represent you well not only on your wedding day but also in your forever photos.

Align Your Dress with the Venue and Formality

Your wedding dress should harmonise with the venue and overall tone of the event. The location and season also play an essential role—what’s appropriate for an evening event in a cathedral may feel out of place at a summer beach ceremony.

Matching your dress to the setting ensures continuity and helps you avoid any logistical challenges. Balance practicality with elegance to ensure you feel at ease throughout the day.

Understand Your Body and the Importance of Fit

One of the most important factors in choosing a wedding dress is understanding what styles complement your body. While all body types are beautiful, certain silhouettes work better with specific shapes. Understanding how a dress flatters your figure will help you choose something that you not only look great in, but is comfortable to wear.

Establish a Realistic Budget

Before visiting any bridal boutique, determine your budget. Wedding dresses can vary widely in cost, and setting financial boundaries early on will help you avoid falling in love with a dress that exceeds what you’re willing to spend.

When creating your budget, be sure to include additional costs such as alterations and accessories. There is also a magnitude of pre-loved gown stores you might want to look into if your budget is restrictive, such as Still White, and Love Me Twice. Not only are these options perfect for the budget conscious (allowing you to pre-define a price before searching), but they can also help you find vintage pieces that are rare to come by.

Olivia wearing Cesar Chehade, photographed by Keegan Cronin.

Consider the Details with Purpose

Small details, such as embellishments, fabric choice, and neckline, can elevate a gown from ordinary to exceptional. However, the design elements should feel purposeful and refined. Whether you prefer intricate lace, subtle beading, or clean lines, ensure that each detail serves a role in contributing to the overall elegance of the gown, rather than distracting from it.

Necklines, sleeve styles, and train lengths can dramatically change the tone of a dress. For example, a high neckline or long sleeves can offer a sense of formality and sophistication, while strapless gowns or minimal designs may lend themselves to a more modern aesthetic. Choose details that enhance your presence without overwhelming the overall look.

Listen to Your Instincts—But Temper with Reason

While emotions often play a significant role in choosing a wedding dress, it’s important to balance your feelings with practical considerations. It’s possible to feel an emotional connection to multiple gowns, but remember to think through how each option aligns with your broader vision, venue, and budget.

Consider how you will feel not just in the moment, but throughout the entire day—walking down the aisle, standing through photos, and dancing through the evening. If a dress fulfills both your emotional and practical needs, you’ve likely found "the one."

Olivia wearing Cesar Chehade, photographed by Keegan Cronin.

Plan Ahead for Alterations

Once you’ve chosen your dress, don’t overlook the importance of professional tailoring. Nearly all wedding dresses require alterations to achieve the perfect fit, so allow sufficient time for multiple fittings. Professional alterations can refine the silhouette, adjust the hemline, and ensure the dress feels tailored to your body in every way. Budget for these adjustments to ensure your dress looks its best.

Finding the right wedding dress is not something to rush. Approach this process with patience and a clear sense of purpose. Each choice, from the silhouette to the fabric, should reflect the thoughtfulness and care that has gone into planning your wedding day. By taking the time to consider each aspect of the dress and how it fits into the larger picture of your celebration, you’ll find a gown that not only meets but exceeds your expectations.

Happy shopping lovers!

Cene team x